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The Torch Gets Passed

Posted on April 10, 2025 by Minister AJ Wisti
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An image of Mrs. Tina Wisti, wearing a tiny black dress and laying on some grass.

Part V: After the Silence

The grave was filled, but the stories were just beginning.

At the burial, the air was thick—not just with grief, but reverence. Each handful of dirt tossed into the ground carried memories. Grandchildren wiped their eyes. Great-grandchildren clung to the legs of tearful adults. And then, like a signal passed between hearts, the silence gave way to soft-spoken laughter, shared glances, and gentle nods toward the man who had given so much, and asked for so little.

Echoes at the VFW

The after-ceremony dinner at the local VFW Hall was more than a meal—it was a gathering of echoes. Photographs lined the tables: grainy black-and-white snapshots of a young man in uniform, arms slung around squadmates who never made it home. Polaroids of cookouts. Wedding dances. Sunday drives. They passed plates and memories, one hand steadying the other.

"He once gave me the shirt off his back," someone said.

"He taught me how to drive a stick shift in the rain."

"He never missed a graduation. Or a phone call. Even when his own legs failed, he’d stand to shake your hand."

The room warmed with remembrance. Toasts were raised. Tears mingled with gravy. And in the center of it all, his presence lingered—not in sorrow, but celebration.

A Quiet Conversation

Later, as the crowd thinned and plates clinked in the kitchen sink, the adult children of the family gathered near the fireplace where the Minister sat, nursing a small cup of black coffee. He had presided over the ceremony with grace, but now, stripped of formality, he looked like a boy again—one who had once run alongside the man they now mourned.

“You knew him longer than any of us,” said the eldest daughter, her voice soft but sure.

The Minister nodded. “Since we were twelve. First time I saw him, he’d just punched a kid twice his size for picking on a dog with a limp.”

Laughter rippled through the group, chased quickly by silence. The son cleared his throat.

“Did he ever talk to you about… what came next? I mean, after all this?”

The Minister looked into the fire for a moment, the orange glow dancing in his eyes. “He didn’t speak of heaven like a prize. He spoke of it like a reunion. He didn’t fear death—he feared not being remembered. Not being present in the lives he helped shape.”

The youngest daughter dabbed at her eyes. “I wish we’d visited more. I—I was always so busy. Kids. Work. Life.”

The Minister turned to her gently. “He never counted your absences. Only your arrivals. When you showed up, he lit up like a soldier hearing taps at sunset.”

“I just don’t want his life to feel… lost,” she whispered.

“It’s not lost,” the Minister said. “It’s planted. In you. In your children. In every story you share, every lesson you teach, every moment you slow down long enough to hold someone's hand. That’s how he lives on.”

The Last Toast

As the Minister rose to leave, he turned back with one last thought. “He told me once, not long before the end, that we all die twice—once when we stop breathing, and again when our name is spoken for the last time.”

He raised his empty cup. “So speak his name. Often. And don’t just remember what he did. Remember how he made you feel—valued, strong, present. That’s the legacy he wanted. Not statues. Just a seat at the table in your heart.”

They stood there long after he’d gone, each lost in thought—no longer just mourners, but keepers of a flame.

A Life Well Lived

And in that moment, they understood. Life isn't measured by what we accumulate, or even by what we survive. It’s measured by who we show up for. By who we become in the quiet moments when no one is watching. By the stories we carry forward, and the time we choose to give to those who still walk beside us.

They didn’t just bury a man. They lifted a legacy. One they now held in their own hands, trembling but determined—not to rush, not to forget, not to fade.

They would slow down. They would call more. Visit more. Listen more.

Because time waits for no one. But love, shared in presence, echoes forever.


Part VI: The Return to Light

They say the soul knows where to go. That when the body fades, the spirit remembers the way home.

And so it was that he woke—not with a start, but with peace. No aching knees. No tightness in the chest. No confusion about what day it was or where he'd left his glasses. He simply... was.

He stood barefoot on soft earth, beneath a sky streaked with colors no artist had ever quite captured. The wind didn’t bite—it kissed. The light wasn’t harsh—it embraced. Every breath was effortless, every thought like birdsong. He looked down and saw a leaner frame, broad-shouldered and strong. His Air Force jacket fit just as it had the day he left for basic training, and when he smiled, his teeth no longer ached. His hair was thick again, tousled by the breeze that smelled faintly of cedar and summer rain.

“Well I’ll be,” he whispered. “Didn’t think I’d be this handsome again.”

And then she was there.

She stepped out from a grove of flowering trees—her laugh trailing ahead of her like sunlight breaking through the clouds. She was young again, as radiant as the day he’d first seen her in that red cotton dress, the one that made time stutter and his heart leap sideways. Her eyes still had that mischievous glint, like she knew all the answers and was waiting to see if he’d figure them out too.

“You took your sweet time,” she teased, hands on her hips, though her smile betrayed her joy.

“Traffic was a nightmare,” he said, and they both burst out laughing. It was the kind of laughter that echoed without echoing, a sound the stars leaned closer to hear.

They embraced—not as memories, but as themselves. Whole. He held her like he’d never let go again, and here, he never had to.

A Walk Between Worlds

They walked a path of golden grass that shimmered in the sunlight. In the distance, mountains floated like clouds, and rivers sang lullabies to the trees. The air was music. The ground hummed with memory.

Along the way, animals walked with them—wolf, owl, elk, and fox—not as beasts, but as brothers. Each step was a lesson remembered. Each glance a story retold.

He looked to his wife. “Is this it, then? The final chapter?”

“Not the final,” she said, linking her arm through his. “Just a different page. Spirit is like wind—it never stops moving. It just changes shape.”

The Spirit Road

From a nearby ridge, a voice rose in song. It was not English, but neither was it unknown. The words were the language of the land, older than books, etched into rivers and passed through drumbeats.

“When the eagle calls, the spirit rises. When the bear sleeps, the soul remembers. And when the stars fall like ash from a sacred fire, the ancestors dance.”

In the traditions of the Lakota, it is said that the Milky Way is the Spirit Road—the path the soul travels to the next world. And now he walked that road hand-in-hand with the one he’d loved through youth, war, fatherhood, grief, and every burnt casserole in between.

There was no judgment here. No ledger. Only the rhythm of a life lived honestly—and the reward of joy earned through years of stumbling toward grace.

Forever Begins Gently

They paused beside a lake where the water reflected not just their faces, but their best days. First kisses. Baby laughter. The warmth of old friends, long passed but waiting just beyond the reeds with grins and fishing poles.

He didn’t need to ask what came next. He already felt it—a pulse of belonging that stitched the soul back to its true self. Not as a man who aged and faltered, but as one who endured and became.

Here, there were no clocks. No goodbyes. Just the hush of eternity and the echo of welcome.

And as they walked deeper into the glow, his spirit no longer carried weight. Only light. Only love. Only the dance of the sacred wind guiding him home.


Epilogue: The Torch

That night, long after the funeral, the son dreamed. He was standing in the middle of an open prairie beneath a canopy of stars so vast it made him feel both impossibly small and divinely significant. A low wind moved through the tall grass like a whispered memory, and in the distance, he saw two figures walking hand in hand toward the horizon—his mother in her red cotton dress, and his father, proud and young, his military jacket crisp against the twilight.

They stopped and turned to face him. No words passed between them, but the message was unmistakable. His father raised one hand—not in farewell, but in recognition. Between his fingers, a small flicker of light passed into the son’s chest. It didn’t burn. It warmed. It throbbed with every heartbeat and pulsed with every memory: the laughter, the scoldings, the lessons wrapped in awkward silences, the love that men like his father often struggled to show but never stopped giving.

He awoke with tears on his face and the unmistakable scent of cedar in the air. The ache in his chest wasn’t grief anymore. It was responsibility. A quiet, holy weight. He had been seen. He had been chosen. And now, in ways not fully understood, it was his turn to carry the fire forward—through story, through compassion, and through the small, steady acts of love that echo louder in this world than any sermon ever could.


The Fire Still Burns

The pregnancy test wasn’t what shook them—it was the town’s reaction. News traveled faster than the wind that rolled off the hills. One wild night, a bonfire turned into a barefoot dance, music louder than common sense, laughter too free to be contained. Nine months now loomed like a countdown, and Mysti carried the spark inside her. Brutus was the father—no doubts, no scandal there. But facts didn’t seem to matter in a town raised on suspicion and whispered scripture.

They’d barely made it past the farmers’ co-op before the first confrontation. A woman with a bob too sharp for her face and a voice like a morning radio host cornered them near the canning jars. “So,” she drawled with a smirk, “gonna name it Moonchild or Jezebel?” Behind her, two others nodded like backup dancers, eyes gleaming with judgment.

Mysti glanced at Brutus. He didn’t flinch. His hand found hers—firm, steady, present. It wasn’t like the early days. Back then, she would’ve fired back with a mouth that could light up any back alley. Brutus would've clenched his fists before thinking twice. But that was before they met Mama Delphine.

Delphine had lived up in the foothills, in a cabin held together with cedar, salt, and sass. She was old even when they were teens, skin like tree bark and eyes like stars that remembered. She taught them tea wasn’t just for drinking—it was for listening. That herbs had stories, and so did silence. She told Mysti, “Your tongue can kill or heal. Choose.” Told Brutus, “The strongest man ain't the one who hits first—it’s the one who can still love after being hit hardest.”

Back in the store, Mysti straightened her spine and smiled—not a smirk, but something older, more ancient. “We’re naming them whatever spirit calls out strongest,” she said. “And if y’all want to be invited to the baby shower, I suggest bringing something stronger than sarcasm.”

The women blinked, stunned by the absence of rage. Brutus tipped his hat like his father had taught him and added, “Besides, we weren’t made in a mold. We were made in the fire. You can either warm yourself by it… or get burned tryin’ to smother it.”

Later, as they sat on the porch sipping mint tea steeped from Delphine’s dried stash, Mysti sighed and rubbed her belly. “Used to be, I’d go full nuclear on fools like that.” Brutus chuckled, resting his hand over hers. “Same. But this ain’t the time to burn bridges. Not when we’re building something bigger.”

The wind rustled through the trees like applause, and somewhere in the distance, an owl hooted its agreement. Delphine had passed on a year before, but her lessons lingered. Peace wasn’t weakness. Fire wasn’t fury. And legacy wasn’t built on who shouted loudest—but who kept standing after the noise faded.

In the quiet that followed, Mysti whispered, “They’ll talk.” Brutus nodded, kissing her knuckles. “Let ’em. We’ll live.” And in the stillness of twilight, with the hills watching and the stars waking up, they both knew—this child would be born into something rare. A love that had been tempered, not tamed. A fire that didn’t need to rage to stay lit.


Casseroles and Crossfire

The fellowship hall smelled of scorched cheese, floral perfume, and barely concealed judgment. The casserole table sagged under the weight of cream-of-suspicion soup, while the prayer circle in the corner hummed like a hive of gossip bees. Mysti had barely touched her potato salad before the pastor’s wife, Sister Lurleen, made her approach—hands clasped, eyes weaponized with faux concern.

“We’ve been *prayin’* for you,” she said, drawing out the word like a dislocated jaw. “What with the… situation and all. I told Harold it reminded me of that time Sister Bonnie’s niece came back from that drum circle retreat with a baby and a pet goat. Only difference was, she at least got a ring by the end of it.”

Mysti blinked. “A goat?”

“We all carry burdens,” Lurleen said sweetly. “Some just show sooner than others.”

Brutus saw the grip tighten around Mysti’s plastic fork like it was about to become a shiv. He stood slowly, already hearing the murmurs ripple around the room like bad reverb. An older deacon muttered, “That boy was always a fuse with no cover,” and Sister Ruthie gasped, “Didn’t he used to tip cows while drunk in high school?”

He had. And probably would again, if they didn’t get their act together.

But instead of throwing down his plate or delivering a backwoods beatdown, Brutus raised one eyebrow and launched into a story that stopped spoons mid-air.

“You know, back in Finland, we don’t argue. We just stand in silence, make coffee, and wait until everyone dies off. Very efficient. One time, my cousin Jari got in a bar fight with a moose. No one won. But the moose got therapy.”

The room went still. A woman coughed into her pudding. Pastor Harold dropped a toothpick.

“Another time, my uncle told his wife she was ‘as warm as a sauna but twice as loud.’ She didn’t speak to him for a week. He said it was the best vacation he ever had.”

Mysti tried to stifle a snort. It came out like a warbled tea kettle. Lurleen blinked like she was rebooting. The other women stared, expressions somewhere between confused and constipated. Brutus took a deep sip of sweet tea, set the cup down slowly, and added: “So unless y’all have a goat, a moose, or a credible therapist, maybe keep the holy casseroles and unholy judgments to yourselves.”

Silence. Unholy, divine, absolute silence.

Even the ceiling fans hesitated.

Later, outside on the church steps, Mysti exhaled. “Thought for sure you were gonna swing at Deacon Jeb.”

Brutus grinned. “Nah. The man once lost a fistfight with a scarecrow. I’m not adding that to my résumé.”

She leaned on him, belly gently pressing against his side. “That was… beautiful. Weird. But beautiful.”

He kissed her forehead. “Temperance isn’t just keeping cool. It’s making the room hot with your words and then walking out before it burns down.”

They left the building with their heads high, hand in hand, the fire in their veins burning brighter than ever. They’d faced the gossip. Faced the judgment. And walked away with their pride intact—and maybe even a casserole or two wrapped in tinfoil guilt and silence.


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