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Time Waits For No One

Posted on April 9, 2025 by Minister AJ Wisti
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An image of Mrs. Tina Wisti, wearing a tiny black dress and laying on some grass.

Part I: When Days Were Endless

He was just a boy then—barefoot in the fields, with the sun on his face and no concept of clocks beyond the dinner bell.

Time moved like molasses. Summers were stretched-out adventures, and winters just a pause before another round of tree-climbing, frog-chasing, and make-believe battles in the woods. His world was measured not in hours, but in laughter, scraped knees, and the glow of fireflies at dusk.

He believed, like most children do, that the world waited for him. That dreams would hold until he was ready. That tomorrow was a promise, not a gamble.

Innocence Lost

Then came a letter with a government seal and a number. The world, it seemed, no longer waited. It called. Demanded. Marched.

He traded baseball caps for helmets, innocence for instruction. The days that once stretched into forever were now chopped into drills, shifts, and survival. He learned that time wasn’t soft—it was steel. Merciless. A missed second could mean a missed breath.

The Clock of War

In combat, time became both enemy and ally. Seconds stretched during gunfire. Hours disappeared waiting for orders. He watched friends vanish in the blink of an eye and learned to live inside each moment like it might be the last.

He no longer wished time would speed up or slow down—he just wanted more of it. To write letters. To smell home. To hear his mother’s voice, even once more.

But time didn’t care. It marched on, with or without him. So he followed. Because life waits for no one.

Lead, Follow, or Get Out of the Way

He came home a man. Older than his years, quieter than his peers. He found a job, built a family, and tried not to look over his shoulder at the seconds lost to war.

He taught his children to value time—not just to fill it. "Lead, follow, or get out of the way," he’d say. Not out of pride, but survival. He’d learned that indecision is its own kind of death.

Part II: Measured in Footsteps

The boy grew into a father. Then a grandfather. The fields of his youth became driveways. His children had children. And the world—louder, faster, always rushing—forgot to stop and breathe.

He saw time not in clocks now, but in first steps and last goodbyes. He watched as loved ones drifted away, not in tragedy, but in routine. Time stole them not with war, but with distraction.

He missed his wife most in the mornings. She had once brought rhythm to his chaos. Now, the ticking of the kitchen clock echoed like gunfire in a trench—relentless, hollow.

Still Marching

He walked daily, each footstep a rebellion against the clock. He carried a cane, but his posture still held military discipline. He nodded to strangers who didn’t nod back.

Time, he realized, wasn’t measured in seconds anymore—it was measured in presence. In the moments people chose to show up. Or not.

And fewer and fewer did.

The Enemy Now

He’d once feared bullets. Now he feared birthdays. Each year brought fewer calls, fewer visits. He lived among photographs and medals—silent reminders of life’s applause, now long faded.

Time no longer attacked. It ignored him. And that hurt more than war.

But he remembered the motto: lead, follow, or get out of the way. So, he still rose each morning. Still saluted the sun. Still lived.

Part III: The Final Parade

He sat in his worn recliner, the same one he'd held his grandkids in, long before they grew too busy to visit. The house was quiet, save for the rhythmic hum of the grandfather clock—its pendulum swinging like a heartbeat.

He didn’t fear death. He feared being forgotten. That all his time spent—leading, following, surviving—would dissolve into silence, like the lives of his fallen comrades.

But then, once in a while, a young neighbor would stop to help with groceries. A local student would ask him about the war. A great-grandchild would sit beside him, wide-eyed, asking about fireflies and tree forts.

Legacy in Time

He would smile and begin to speak, his voice slow but sure. And in those moments, time paused—not out of pity, but respect.

He was no longer chasing life, nor being chased by it. He had become its storyteller. Its steward.

And that, he thought, might be the final act of leadership: not to outrun time, but to give it meaning.


Part IV: The Stories We Almost Missed

He was always a giant in my eyes—until the day I realized giants grow old too.

I started visiting him after school, mostly because Mom asked me to. He lived just across town, in a house that smelled like coffee, dust, and something sweet that lingered long after my great-grandmother passed away. It used to smell stronger—like fresh-baked bread and peppermint candy—but now it was more memory than fragrance.

He’d wait by the window, as if every visit might be the last. At first, I didn’t get it. I thought he was just lonely. I didn’t realize he was fading—not just physically, but in the way the world had left him behind, like the candy wrappers that once filled his trash when she was still around.

A Quiet Kind of Strength

He wasn’t the man in the photographs anymore—the one in uniform, standing proud with medals on his chest and fire in his eyes. That man had shoulders that held the weight of nations. This man now struggled to carry a cup of tea from the kitchen to the table without spilling it.

But when he spoke… when he told his stories… the strength came back. In his voice. In his eyes. Even if his hands trembled, his words stood tall. And I listened—because I could feel those stories were waiting. Not to be told, but to be received. Before they disappeared like so many others.

The Forgotten Generation

He told me about the land they once worked with their hands. How a farm wasn’t just a job—it was life itself. His fingers, curled with age, had once dug into the soil to raise food, family, and hope. Now, the land was gone—sold to some corporation that flattened the fields and paved a parking lot over the heartbeat of his youth.

He didn’t speak of it bitterly. Just… quietly. Like a man mourning a friend no one else remembered.

He missed the slower days—when neighbors knew your name, and meals were shared, not ordered. He missed porch swings and church potlucks and conversations that didn’t end with someone checking their phone.

A World Moving Too Fast

I started noticing how loud the world had become when I left his house. The buzz of traffic. Notifications on my phone. People rushing nowhere, saying nothing. But in his home, time still breathed slowly. And somehow, it felt more alive.

He used to do everything himself. Now, he waited for help. Not because he wanted to—but because his body had betrayed him. He still polished his boots, though. Still folded his shirts like he was reporting for duty. I think it gave him dignity. Control.

I once asked him why he did it, and he smiled. “Because that’s what you do when no one’s looking,” he said. “You show up. You keep your word. Even if the world’s forgotten your name.”

One Last March

His steps were slow now. One hand always reached for a wall, a table, a chair. But he still stood when I entered the room. “A man greets his guest standing,” he’d say, even if his legs shook from the effort.

He didn’t ask for much—just time. Just a few minutes to sit beside him and listen. And as I did, I started to realize the truth: he wasn’t the one fading. We were the ones blind to the depth we were losing.

Every elder like him is a library waiting to be burned, a lifetime condensed into one-room apartments and secondhand chairs. And we move too fast to notice.

The Last Lesson

He passed on a Tuesday morning. I was late. I had homework, traffic, a text I thought was important. And I missed the chance to say goodbye.

But he left me something. Not a medal. Not a photo. A notebook—his own words, written in neat, blocky letters. The last page read: “Time waits for no one. Lead, follow, or get out of the way. But if you’re lucky—someone will sit down beside you and just… stay.”

I stayed. I read. And now I write, because I don’t want the world to forget him—or the millions like him who once led, who followed with honor, and who quietly stepped aside as the world raced on without them.


The Roots Remember

The house smelled like cedar and old books. Brutus hadn’t been back since the winter his mother fell ill, but now the air was still, touched only by the scent of her favorite sage bundle, long burned but not forgotten. Mysti walked quietly behind him, her hand brushing the framed photographs along the hallway—family reunions, hay bales stacked for harvest, his mother smiling with a woven basket full of corn.

Brutus’ father, a man of few words but steady hands, sat at the old oak table, polishing a pair of worn work boots. “They were hers,” he said without looking up. “She wore ’em to the garden every spring.” He placed the boots aside with the reverence others reserved for folded flags. Mysti saw it then—not just grief, but defiance. Not the loud, shouting kind. The kind that tills the same patch of earth every year even when the world says it's easier to buy produce in plastic wrap.

They talked late into the night—about her cooking, her stubbornness, and the way she could calm a storm in the house with one look. “She never cared for the noise of the world,” his father said, eyes locked on the flicker of the woodstove. “Trends come and go. She raised a family on calloused hands and stories passed down. That’s what holds up when the lights go out.”

Mysti realized how much the world forgot about people like them. Elders who taught through example, not lectures. Who planted more than they harvested, knowing someone else would reap the fruit. In a time when everyone chased the next big thing, here sat a man still mending shirts instead of replacing them, still paying respect to a woman who never owned a smartphone, yet somehow knew more about connection than anyone scrolling a feed.

They asked him about the land. If he’d ever sell it. Developers had circled like vultures for years—offering checks that could pay for ten lifetimes. He shook his head slowly. “A piece of dirt is just dirt if you don’t remember who walked on it. This land holds stories. You don’t trade that for concrete and convenience.”

It struck Brutus then—how rebellion didn’t always wear leather or shout in protests. Sometimes, it looked like a quiet man refusing to sell his family’s legacy to a stranger in a suit. It looked like choosing trade school over college debt. Like enlisting in the military not for glory, but for discipline and duty. Like raising children to ask questions, not follow trends.

Mysti leaned in. “People say we’re old-fashioned.” Brutus’ father smiled. “That’s 'cause most folks forgot what fashion was before they started chasing it.”

Before they left, Brutus’ father handed them a box—letters, journals, and photos. “Your mother always said stories were seeds. Don’t let ’em die in the dark.”

That night, by the light of a single lamp, they read aloud his mother’s words. About love. About labor. About how raising a family wasn’t a burden—it was the rebellion of nurturing in a world that teaches us to discard. And for the first time in weeks, Mysti cried—not out of sadness, but gratitude. Because she saw now: the future wasn’t built by those who followed trends, but by those who stood still long enough to remember.


The Roots Remember

The morning light hit different on the old porch—soft, golden, like a whisper through time. Walter Royce sat in his father’s rocking chair, the same one that once creaked under a man who’d turned wrenches on tanks under desert suns. “North Africa,” Walter said with a grunt, lifting his coffee. “Hotter than Hades and twice as loud. My daddy said a tank ain’t just metal—it’s a promise to get your boys home safe.”

Mysti leaned forward. She’d heard bits of Brutus’ family history, but not like this—not with the weight of memory pouring from a man who’d lived under that shadow of duty. Walter’s eyes softened as he spoke. “He was hard, sure. But fair. Said the Army taught him how to fix what others gave up on. Not just machines. People too.” He chuckled. “That’s a good sermon title right there.”

Brutus had been recording the whole thing on his tablet, the mic clipped to the rail post beside his father. Walter didn’t mind. In fact, he encouraged it. “Truth is,” he said, pausing to sip, “this world don’t slow down to listen anymore. But maybe if you tuck some of these stories into that tech stuff of yours, someone down the line will still hear us.”

Brutus smiled. That was the plan. He’d already been drafting episodes—recordings of elders, old hymnals digitized, family history woven into spiritual lessons. He called it “The Fires That Remember,” and with Walter’s blessing, he planned to feature them in their ministry’s outreach. “There’s wisdom in every wrinkle,” Brutus had said once. “It just needs a louder mic.”

Walter nodded with pride. “Your granddad used to say—when the world forgets where it came from, it forgets where it’s going. That’s why we had maps. And compasses. And stories. This podcast of yours? It’s all three.”

Later that afternoon, Walter took Mysti’s hand. His grip, though weathered, still carried weight. “I know it’s a lot to ask,” he said quietly. “But I’d sure like to see a child running around this place again. One that carries your fire and his patience. Maybe before I cross over. Don’t rush, but… don’t wait forever either.”

Mysti didn’t know what to say. The thought of raising a child in a world like this scared her sometimes—but here, surrounded by roots that went deeper than politics or technology, the fear softened. She looked to Brutus, who was already watching her, his eyes full of unspoken dreams and steady love.

That evening, as the sun dipped low and the fields glowed amber, Walter stood beside the old barn and spoke into Brutus’ mic. “This land’s seen a lot,” he said. “Laughter. Death. Birth. Wars overseas and battles right here in our own hearts. But through it all, we held. Because we remembered. We remembered who we were, and whose we were.”

Brutus added that clip to the first episode. Mysti titled it, “Strength Wears Wrinkles.” And when it aired, it didn’t trend or go viral. But in quiet corners of the country, old radios and smartphones played Walter’s voice—and somewhere, a new fire lit.

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