Homelessness - A Reality For Some That Society Wishes Would Go Away

The Harsh Truth About Homelessness: A Minister’s Perspective
Homelessness in Omaha, Nebraska, has reached a crisis point. Shelters are full, streets are crowded, and those who live comfortably find their daily lives disrupted by the presence of those with nowhere else to go. But why do so many refuse help? Why does the problem seem unfixable? The truth is simple: homelessness is a symptom of deeper personal and societal issues—issues that charity alone cannot solve.
As someone who has lived it, I know the struggle firsthand. I have slept in shelters, wandered the streets, and faced the uncertainty of not knowing where my next meal would come from. And through it all, I realized one thing: no one is coming to save you. Shelters exist to provide temporary relief, not a permanent escape from responsibility. But not everyone is willing—or able—to accept that reality.
Because for some, the streets seem like a better option. Shelters aren’t hotels—they’re temporary refuge, not long-term solutions. Rules exist for a reason, but not everyone wants to follow them. Some fear theft or violence inside shelters, while others struggle with mental illness or addiction, making structure and accountability unbearable.
I know this firsthand. I was homeless in Omaha and stayed at the Siena-Francis House and Open Door Mission Men's Shelters. I expected handouts. I blamed the system. Then someone gave me a reality check: No one is coming to save you. You either fight your way out or sink deeper. Shelters and charities provide opportunities, but they won’t fix your life for you. That’s on you.
Scripture teaches us in 2 Thessalonians 3:10 (AMP), "For even while we were with you, we used to give you this order: ‘If anyone is not willing to work, then he is not to eat, either.’" This is not a condemnation of the poor but a call to action—an instruction to take control of one’s circumstances rather than surrender to them. Homelessness is not just about lacking a roof over one’s head; it is about lacking direction, discipline, and sometimes even the will to change.
Addiction, unemployment, and mental illness are very real struggles, but they do not absolve one of responsibility. James 2:17 (AMP) reminds us, "So too, faith, if it does not have works [to back it up], is by itself dead [inoperative and ineffective]." There are resources, but they require effort. Recovery programs exist, but they demand commitment. Jobs are available, but they require persistence.
As a minister, my approach to homelessness is rooted in hard truth and unwavering faith. I provide resources, but I do not make excuses. I extend a hand, but I expect effort in return. My wife and I have lived through the struggle and found a way out. That is why I run a resource website—to connect people with the tools they need, but not to carry them.
Omaha’s homeless crisis is not just a social issue; it is a spiritual and moral one. We must stop pretending that all homelessness is the result of bad luck. Yes, life is unfair. Yes, costs are rising. But there are those who claw their way out and those who resign themselves to failure. The difference? Effort.
John 5:8 (AMP) says, "Jesus said to him, ‘Get up; pick up your pallet and walk.’" The choice is yours. Life is hard. It’s even harder when you don’t try.